The In-between

90 degrees and sunny, but make it Fall. Um, okay...

I wish I were better at transitional style, especially from Summer to Fall. The whole concept is sort of baffling if you live in a warmer climate and the truth is, Fall isn't really a season here in southern California. We get some relief from the heat now and then but by the time I get to enjoy it, Christmas is right around the corner.

The in-between can feel so frustrating when you can't decide what to wear! I spent a good amount of time yesterday trying on different outfits, feeling a bit defeated. But instead of throwing my hands up and complaining, I'm trying my best to embrace this predicament. I lived in dresses all Summer long, and just because my social media feeds are filled with lovely Autumnal outfits doesn't mean I can't wear my own version of Fall.

Dress, Cardigan, Booties

Dress, Colorblock cardigan, Sandals, Bag

Moto Jacket, Leopard Flats

Here are some tips I use: 

1) Switch out your Summer accessories. Instead of carrying your favorite woven beach tote or straw bag, pull out a nice leather (or vegan leather) shoulder bag. I typically reach for black or jewel-toned, but the blush Madewell tote I bought during Summer still works! More structured bags work very well in Fall and always look chic.

2) I also begin wearing flats again this time of year instead of sandals. They instantly read Fall to me. Ankle boots are naturally a good option as well. I love wearing mine with mini dresses for a more leg lengthening look.

3) When in doubt, the use of color will transition your wardrobe. Think orange, rust, mustard, olive, navy. Prints such as leopard, cheetah, and snakeskin are all big this year so incorporating them into your outfit is the easiest way to feel more seasonally appropriate regardless of your particular climate.

4) Layer, layer, layer. None of the outfits I created above are groundbreaking, I just added a jacket or cardigan to the dresses I've lived in this Summer. It really is that simple! Mornings and evenings are starting to get chilly, so having the option to add or remove a layer is practical and stylish.

5) If it's too warm for long sleeves, a kimono is a lightweight layering piece that still adds some visual interest to shorts, t-shirts, camisoles, and jeans. Even better if it's in a traditional Fall color.


I know retail calendars want us all to rush through each season, but that doesn't mean we have to! Changing a few details is all it takes to make the shift.

How do you navigate the in-between? By the way, do you like these type of indoor photos? Please let me know and have a great weekend!

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My 35th Birthday

My 35th birthday was yesterday, and it was fabulous! I didn't have any set plans, which I guess is kind of unusual considering that I'm at the halfway mark of my 30's, and I originally thought a few months ago that I'd do something big to celebrate. But maybe that's more of a signal that I truly am at a different stage in my life and just waking up in the morning, taking a deep breath, and being grateful that I'm still here is enough. Now more than ever, I know that life is a gift and nothing else matters except love in all its messy, complicated forms.

I thought about writing a big thought-provoking post about turning 35 - what I've learned so far, things I'd like to accomplish in the next 5 years, any regrets I've had or pearls of wisdom I could offer you...I just can't seem to gather them at the moment, so until I finally can, I'll just say that I'm thankful for all of you who stop by and read this blog. The confidence it's given me over the years, especially during really hard times, has proven invaluable. Thank you.

Now onto the outfit.

Some of you may be wondering if I've lost all of my pants. This is probably the 7th or 8th dress I've worn on and off the internet since the beginning of Summer, and while I totally realize I should switch things up a bit, I can't stop wearing them! Dresses are just SO easy, and nothing else makes me feel more put together. This is another little number by the Aussie brand MinkPink, and I bought it on sale from Shopbop a couple months ago with my birthday or wedding anniversary in mind. I love the flutter sleeves, the tie detail at the bust, and the way it hugs my curves. Everyone wants to feel good on their birthday and this dress did just that!

The dress is perfect for Summer, but I'm happy to report that it can easily transition to warmer Fall days. It was super windy yesterday and there was a chill in the air, so I added this new cardigan on top and it worked well together. 

Wearing // MinkPink sweet delilah dress, Target sandals, Similar nude clutch, Gorjana necklace & rings, Target cardigan

Nate took me to a restaurant in old town Temecula called The Nightingale. It was our first time, but it most certainly will not be our last! We didn't have a reservation but I recommend one on Friday and Saturday nights because it's a pretty small space. The atmosphere and decor were really romantic, the staff was friendly, and the food was delicious! We split the squid ink spaghetti and also got a cheese board because I live for them. I also loved their lavender infused cocktail - surprisingly good!

This might be the best drink to have when you're feeling stressed ;) Almost too pretty to drink.

That's it for today but I hope to blog at least a couple times next week so I'll see you then! Have a great weekend. 💋

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Orange Is The New Black // Late Summer Into Fall

Another day, another orange dress! I realize that my last outfit post was also an orange dress, but it just goes to show that a) it's still insanely hot in SoCal so lightweight pieces are a must and b) orange really is the new black! At least for me.

Wearing // Nectar Clothing dress, Steven sandals, Clare V bag, Gorjana necklace

Beauty // Physicians Formula butter bronzer

A couple weeks ago I walked into a local boutique looking for a candle, and I walked out with this flirty little dress instead. Growing up, I hated the color orange - absolutely hated it. So naturally that means I love it now as an adult. It looks glowing on freshly bronzed skin, pairs well with neutrals, and livens up your entire wardrobe. It may not be the most versatile hue, but consider it a fun addition that can instantly lift your mood! I think people overlook orange because it's so bold, but as someone who is introverted, I'm actually surprised at how much I'm gravitating towards vibrant color. 

Orange is the perfect late Summer into Fall shade because it looks great with leopard print, dark florals, and it compliments colors like rust and brick red. It's all about the mix! Most of us may not be able to transition to Fall clothing just yet, but planning what you'd like to wear is key. I always do an inventory of what I need in order to fill any gaps in my wardrobe and proceed from there. For instance, I don't own any nice black pants so a pair is on my current "to buy" list. On the other hand, I do own an olive utility jacket so even though those are making the rounds in stores, I can steer firmly away from buying a new one.  

But really, I haven't bought anything yet because September is just too hot here! Tell me it's the same where you are...also, what are you wearing these last couple weeks of Summer? Have a great weekend!

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Enjoying Summer In A Long Sleeve Wrap Dress

I first wore this dress back in Spring when Nate and I went on a weekend getaway to Palm Springs. I wore it once more after that, but as soon as Summer arrived, I didn't think I'd have much use for it until the weather cooled down. Luckily, there's a big drop in temperature here once the sun sets, so I decided to give it a go again for a night out last week. I love little dresses with long sleeves - there's just something so sophisticated about them! I also love that these sleeves are sheer, so you get the look without too much added warmth. Although I love the bright orange color now, I have a feeling I'll be wearing this dress even more come Fall.

But that won't be for awhile!

Wearing // Similar dress here & here, Steve Madden sandals (love these as well), Madewell tote, necklace one & two, nude camisole under dress

Beauty // Charlotte Tilbury Pillow Talk Lip Kit

I may be in the minority here, but I'm not ready to say goodbye to Summer. I've been inundated with cardigans, tunics, jeans, and booties on my social media feeds for what seems like weeks now and I am not here for it. I totally understand the excitement surrounding a new season, but it's physically impossible for most of us to wear anything other than sundresses, shorts, and swimsuits. Honestly, the mere thought of a sweater makes me itch! I love Summer, and I don't want it to end. For the first time in years I actually managed to get a tan, and I plan on showing it off until I turn back into my pasty, ghostly, self come October. Summer makes me genuinely happy, it always has. It gives me a sense of freedom that I don't normally feel throughout the year, and it makes me want to try new things and experience a little adventure. So while you won't see Fall content on this blog anytime soon, I hope you'll be in the moment with me as I continue savoring one of the best Summers I've ever had.

Are you still enjoying Summer, or are you ready for Fall? 

Linking up with I Do DeClaire. 

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Taking My Spring Midi Dress Into Fall

I've loved midi dresses since I was a kid, and I'm pretty sure that watching reruns of I Love Lucy are mostly to blame. I started wearing midi skirts and dresses a few years ago when they became trendy again, and I still can't let them go. Midi dresses are so feminine, and they can also be surprisingly comfortable. I love being able to move around freely in a midi length while still looking polished. 

After seeing this dress on Lilly last Spring, I immediately bought it and have worn it countless times since. Dinners, a family gathering, and more recently on the plane ride to Mexico! Hey, the elastic waist makes it feel like I'm wearing sweatpants. 

Wearing // Older Ann Taylor midi dress, Old Navy moto jacket, Sam Edelman flats, Chelsea28 white bag, cool option here & here

Beauty // Charlotte Tilbury Pillow Talk lip liner all over lips 

In order to bring the dress into Fall, I simply added the moto jacket I raved about in my last post. Camel and blush pink look beautiful, and I decided to tie them together with white accessories (which are still very much on trend for Fall and Winter). Who says you can't wear white after Labor Day? For that matter, who says you can't bring your warm weather favorites into the colder months? I've really been on a mission this year to get the most use out of different pieces in my closet and although I struggle with it at times, I think I've done well overall. I'm much happier dressing (and blogging!) this way and I hope I'm giving you some ideas! 

Midi dress styling option seen here

Linking up with Rachelle today

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Fall Basics: Olive Twill Jacket & Leopard Flats

Hey ladies, happy Tuesday. I hope you are enjoying your week so far! I'm back with a casual outfit that's perfect for cool Fall days. Our weather is still fluctuating quite a bit but that's typical here - my safest bet is layering so I can adjust when I need to throughout the day.

Wearing // Similar jacket, Target tank, Wit & Wisdom jeans, Target flats, Sezane bag similar here, Ettika coin necklace

I bought this jacket from Express over the Summer when Gina featured it on her blog, and I'm so glad that I grabbed it while I could! This style is so practical for everyday wear, and it can easily be dressed down like I've done here or dressed up. In fact, I love wearing it over a little black dress and ankle boots for a night out with Nate. My exact jacket seems to be sold out, but I've seen similar jackets at Old Navy, Gap, and Target. 

Speaking of Target, I have to say that I'm really impressed with their a new day line. They make such great basics, like the tank top I have on here. I love it so much that I also bought a striped version. They have the perfect amount of stretch, are a thicker weight so they suck you in, and are incredibly comfortable and flattering. I'm wearing my usual size medium and they are true to size. I highly recommend them if you need to replenish any basics in your wardrobe. Also, the leopard flats were an impulse buy after seeing them on another blogger. They are also by a new day and are a great way to incorporate leopard into an outfit if you're a little shy like me. 

After seeing mine, what are your favorite Fall basics? 

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Casual Plaid Blazer & Cecelia Designs Jewelry

  The jewelry featured in this post was gifted to me by Cecelia Designs. 

Wearing // Similar H&M blazer here & here with a cute tie, Wit & Wisdom jeans, Steve Madden shoes, Ted Baker bag, Cecelia Designs Jewelry earrings & bracelet

One of the best parts about Fall dressing are the rich colors, patterns, and textures. While I love the flowy bohemian vibe of Summer, Fall immediately makes me reach for more structured, classic pieces. It's around this time every year that I wish I could travel to New York City, set up shop at a cafe where I can happily people-watch, and revel in all the inspiration whisking by. Living on the west coast, there are just certain truths; mainly, it doesn't ever get that cold. And that's okay. There are some simple ways of participating in all the Fall fashion while still looking appropriate in a warmer area like California.

First, never underestimate the power of a good layering piece. Plaid blazers are huge this year, and they're a fun way to dress up an otherwise basic outfit. I got this one over the Spring from H&M, and they have a ton of options! I was just in there the other day and plaid was everywhere. This one is nice because it has the fit and feel of a cardigan, while still giving the illusion of a blazer.

Second, shoes make all the difference. I mean, enough said.

And third, use jewelry to create interest and go for pieces that really speak to you! I've become much more selective about jewelry in the last two years. Maybe it's because as a Stella & Dot stylist, I initially made the mistake of collecting too many things (I don't anymore). Maybe it's the wave of delicate everyday pieces that are so trendy right now. Or, maybe it's because I've matured and honed in on what I truly love to wear. Whatever the reason, I'm picky. I will not wear anything that's uncomfortable or heavy. When Ceceila Designs sent over a pair of their light-as-air leather earrings and stretch beaded wrap bracelet, I knew I would wear them repeatedly! I enjoy supporting small businesses headed by women with a vision. Cecelia Designs is based in Minnesota, and for every piece sold, one tree is planted in their community. You can't go wrong!

I hope you'll take a look at their site and find something you like! I love their white and gold splatter leather earrings and plan on purchasing my own pair next. 

So far, what trends are you loving this season?

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Polka Dot Dress + Dark Green Bag

The very first signs of Fall made their appearance this weekend with lower temperatures, some wind, and a light sprinkling of rain here and there. Although I already miss the carefree feeling of Summer, it's always a welcome change to be able to switch up my wardrobe and wear something different.

Wearing // Similar dress here, here, & here, Ted Baker bag, Steve Madden slingbacks

Beauty // Lips in Charlotte Tilbury "Pillow Talk" lip liner

This polka dot midi dress has become a favorite of mine! I got it a few months ago, but polka dots are everywhere at the moment so finding something similar should be pretty easy in case you want to get in on the trend. It's such a classic print that I often wonder why it's ever even referred to as trendy, but I digress. Same thing applies to stripes and leopard - they go in and out, but never feel dated no matter when you wear them. 

It's funny because I feel like I'm wearing a checklist of all the Fall trends I mentioned in this post. Cap toe shoes, check. Fun Fall print, check. Oh, and thanks to my amazing friends Caryl and Gina, I got a jewel-toned bag for my birthday! It's the most gorgeous shade of dark green, the perfect pop of color that goes with all of my Fall and Winter neutrals. The bonus is that everytime I carry it I'll think of them 💗

So all in all, my foray into Fall fashion 2018 has been an easier transition than it has been in the past. It's still too warm to break out the suede moto jackets and scarves, but adding in touches like the slingbacks and green bag make me feel current for the season. 

How is your month going so far? Any big plans for Halloween?

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Transitional Outfit & Shopping For Fall

I'm still working on gathering photos and collecting my thoughts regarding my recent vacation. I'm sorry it's taking so long! I could just throw a bunch of pictures at you but I'd like it to be more thorough. In the meantime, I thought I'd share how I'm slowly transitioning to a Fall wardrobe. It's been really hot here this entire month, but that hasn't stopped me from pulling out the jeans I bought during the Nordstrom anniversary sale. I'd been dying to finally wear them! They fit like a glove, especially in the waist. The hidden band inside them is the key; they lay perfectly flat against your midsection creating the appearance of a totally flat tummy. Plus, they are incredibly soft and comfortable. If anyone is in need of a new denim brand to try that's still affordable, go for Wit & Wisdom. I have two pairs now and am looking into more as the weather begins to cool down.

The perfect transitional outfit for me will always consist of a great pair of dark denim, a pretty top, and metallic accessories.

Wearing // Wit & Wisdom jeans, Nectar striped top, Ettika coin necklace, Zara slides (similar here), Clare V bag, Kendra Scott bracelet

Tops that tie in the front are still going strong in the trend department, and when I saw this striped version at a local boutique, I knew it would become a staple. During the Summer, my style is more flowy and slightly bohemian, but come Fall, I go for a more classic tailored look. 

I'm actually pretty happy with my Fall additions from last year. I'll continue to carry my Sezane shoulder bag, longline cardigans, and ballerina flats. 

However, there are definitely a few trends that I'm interested in for Fall 2018: 

1. Marigold everything: It's such an uplifting shade! I love it with a matte red lip.

2. Cap toe slingbacks: Chanel-inspired (or maybe the real thing) but they are so polished.

3. Hunter green bags: I've been dying for a rich jewel toned bag, and I've settled on green. 

4. Check blazers: Versatile and chic, a check or plaid blazer is the perfect topper. 

5. And yes, even sock boots have my attention this season! A little late to this but that's okay. 

Shop my picks below! See anything you like? What's on your radar this Fall? 

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September Nights

Wearing //

Rebecca Minkoff top on sale

Topshop jeans

J.Crew shoes, similar here and so comfy

Gifted Rebecca Minkoff WOC

Stella & Dot earrings and ring

Beauty //

Lips in Glo Beauty "It Girl" c/o

There's something a bit magical about late September nights, isn't there? We've had an unseasonably cool few days and the nights have been crisp. It's a reminder that Summer really is fading away. Suddenly the days are getting shorter, and every year around this time, I recap how my Summer was. For the most part it was good, but it felt unusually short and I didn't get to the beach much. I'm sure you can tell by my lack of a tan!

September is a sweet month for me. With all of the birthdays and celebrations, the excuse to dress up is very real and I love every moment of it. Aside from the holidays, this is when I get the most use out of my formal pieces. I've worn every single little dress, all of my colorful pumps, and this pretty top (more than once). And yes, jeans CAN be formal when paired with the right shoes, bag, and jewelry. I go for a darker rinse with no distressing. Perfect for those in-between September nights.

Linking up with: Gina, Amy Ann, Laura, Brooke, Carylee, and Rachelle.

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Weekend Wear in Fall

This post is so fun because today, I'm featuring my friend Gina from On the Daily Express! We met up last week to take some photos for blogging purposes, but it also gave us a much needed break to catch up. We live about an hour apart and yet life doesn't allow for too many get togethers...blogging is a great excuse to change that. I'm not very comfortable in front of or behind the camera, so hopefully after a few more sessions with Gina, I will be. It was good practice, and it was a fun departure from having Nate as my photographer!

This outfit is my go-to in Fall, but especially on casual weekends. A simple tee, jeans, flats, and statement earrings! These are by Stella & Dot. They are so light-weight that I hardly notice wearing them. Kendra Scott has a pair that I'm dying to get, and I plan on meeting Gina again tomorrow to use my birthday discount (you get 50% off an item at KS during your birthday month). I don't wear earrings often, but with all of the beautiful options this season, I'm gravitating towards them more and more.

Wearing //

Olivia Moon tee (so soft)

Topshop jeans, similar here

Dolce Vita mules

Stella & Dot earrings (you NEED these)

Chelsea28 bag, love this for Fall

Here's Gina wearing something that's perfect for going out at night. I especially love the wine colored camisole with the black jeans. It's polished, yet still a little sexy with the accessories she chose. 

Head over to her blog to get the details of what she's wearing! I'm linking up with her and Amy Ann.

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